Justin Bieber is the perfect "Boyfriend," and Selena Gomez is one supremely lucky girl. Everybody knows that, right? Well, maybe. Reportedly, JB is sometimes a little less than nice to his "Latin Girl." In fact, his behavior with Selena is consistently much worse than "not nice," and he acts out at her expense a lot more often than "sometimes." According to insiders, the Teen Dream often behaves like a Teen Nightmare with his girlfriend. To put it bluntly, he's a downright abusive jerk. Ouch.
According to inside sources, Justin has been overheard browbeating Selena Gomez by telling her that she's "beyond lucky" that he's her boyfriend. In fact, his psychological abuse of Selena is so relentless that her friends have often urged her to dump him.
"He's so arrogant and immature at times," reveals a source. "Her friends keep telling her to just dump him for good already."
Yikes. So why doesn't she? Well, according to Team Selena, there's an answer to that, too. It seems that whenever JB realizes La Gomez has almost reached the psychological breaking point, he switches gears and becomes all sweetness and light. Not only that, he pulls out all the stops and creates some earth-shattering romantic gesture. The Staples Center rental was the most famous example. A more recent version was Selena's wildly extravagant and sentimental twentieth birthday party which Biebs reportedly personally planned sand controlled down to the last detail.
"Those kind of gestures go a long way with her," the source explains. "But she probably won't put up with him much longer."
Good grief. Justin Bieber, a vain, arrogant, misogynistic, controlling, game-playing jerk who psychologically and verbally abuses Selena Gomez, and then dramatically woos her back into his sadistic clutches with dramatic romantic attention? Say it isn't so, JB.
Of course, there have been hints that all may not be so Disney Technicolor perfect in Jelena-ville. There was the nasty rumor that Selena Gomez was seen crying over Justin at Ashley Tisdale's birthday party. And then there was JB's mystery break-up tweet telling Selena it was time for him to move on. Ouch. The tweet was immediately deleted. And Selena eventually got over whatever was bothering her at Tisdale's party. Nevertheless, it will be interesting to see what happens to these two as time goes by.
If Justn Bieber is abusing Selena Gomez, it's a terrible thing, and it should stop immediately. However, there could be an upside. If their relationship is really one of dominance, submission, psychologically sadistic game playing and control, Jelena sounds like the perfect choice to play the main characters in the eagerly awaited film version of the mommie porn best seller, Fifty Shades of Grey.
Â© Hope Carson 2012